UPDATE - Beda Spink has been claimed by a descendant and is going home. This photo, taken in Winona Minnesota, circa 1885-1890, bears an inscription on the back, which says:
"Grandmother Wallcott-Lindsey, mother of Eliza Alice Wallcott-Fishbyrne, wife of William Alexander Fishbyrne"
Upon investigation, I find that the name of the grandmother is "Beda Spink."
born 1834 (Wyoming County, NY) to parents David Spink and wife.
died 1925 (Caledonia, WI)
Married to 1) George H WOLCOTT and 2) Chester LINDSAY
She had 6 children with her first husband and 1 child with her second husband.